Your Body, Your Boundaries: Staying Safe in the Modeling Industry

What’s Irving Serving?

By Your Favorite Mentor Who’s Seen. It. All.

Alright, my lovely Guys & Dolls, let’s get one thing straight (besides your jawline): this industry can be fierce, fabulous, and freakin’ shady if you’re not careful. You’re here to model, not to be played with. So grab a glass of vino, or your favorite sparkling water, throw on your favorite sweats, and let’s talk about how to stay safe while you work that modeling career like the boss you are.

🎯 Rule #1: If it smells fishy, it’s probably a whole seafood platter.

I don’t care how “exclusive” that last-minute casting call sounds. If it’s in someone’s basement, or if they slide into your DMs at 2 AM with “modeling opportunity ,” baby, block and bless. Legit agencies do not operate like a Tinder hookup. Do your homework. Google is free, and so is your intuition. Trust both.

💼 Rule #2: Real agents don’t ask for nudes (or money up front).

Let me repeat that louder for the people in the back: YOU SHOULD NEVER PAY TO BE SIGNED. A real agency makes money when you do. And unless you’re shooting an editorial for Italian Vogue (and even then), nobody needs to see you in your birthday suit. Keep it classy, not sketchy.

🤳 Rule #3: Social media is your portfolio, not your vulnerability.

Yes, kidz, your grid is giving looks, but don’t let it give away your safety. Don’t post your real-time location. Don’t tag every single place you go. And if someone’s commenting “DM me for a collab,” make sure it’s not some rando in their mom’s basement pretending to be a photographer.

📸 Rule #4: Always bring that bestie to test shoots.

No parent/buddy? No shoot. Period. Your safety is more important than a new headshot. Bring a friend or parent, let someone know where you are, and never be afraid to walk out if something feels off. Modeling is about confidence—use that same confidence to say “nope” when necessary. If you’re a minor then it’s Mom, Dad, or another Adult that you trust!

📝 Rule #5: Read. Every. Contract. Twice. (Then have someone else read it too.)

Don’t sign your life away for a “chance to be famous.” If you don’t understand the contract, ask someone who does like me… An hour with a mentor or lawyer can save you years of regret and a chunk of your paycheck. Trust me, I’ve seen deals messier than a cheap pair of shoes.

Final Tips to Werk It Safe

• Be polite, but don’t be a pushover. You’re not “difficult” for having boundaries—you’re smart.
• Take care of your body and your mind. Sleep, hydrate, meditate. You’re not a mannequin, kidz, you’re human.
• Know your worth and add tax. You are the brand. You are the magic. Don’t settle for less.

In Conclusion:

Modeling is glamorous, but safety is non-negotiable. You’ve got the cheekbones of a god/goddess, the walk of a legend, and the smarts to match—so don’t let anyone dim your shine. Be bold. Be brilliant. Be careful.

And remember: if anyone ever makes you feel small, just channel your inner diva/divo and say,
“Sorry, Sir or Madam, I only walk runways—not red flags.”

Catch Ya Later!

Irving